Saturday, June 23, 2012

BBQ Etiquette

My wife shared this with me.  It is interesting how sometimes we interpret things.

A quick reminder of the BBQ Rules:

We are entering the BBQ season. Therefore it is important to refresh your memory on the etiquette of this sublime outdoor cooking activity. When a man volunteers to do the BBQ the following chain of events are put into motion:

Routine...
(1) The woman buys the food.
(2) The woman makes the salad, prepares the vegetables and makes dessert.
(3) The woman prepares the meat for cooking, places it on a tray along with the necessary cooking utensils and sauces, and takes it to the man who is lounging beside the grill - drink in hand.
(4) The woman remains outside the compulsory three meter exclusion zone where the exuberance of testosterone and other manly bonding activities can take place without the interference of the woman.

Here comes the important part:

(5) THE MAN PLACES THE MEAT ON THE GRILL.

More routine...
(6) The woman goes inside to organize the plates and cutlery.
(7) The woman comes out to tell the man that the meat is looking great. He thanks her and asks if she will bring another drink while he flips the meat.

Important again:
(8) THE MAN TAKES THE MEAT OFF THE GRILL AND HANDS IT TO THE WOMAN.

More routine...
(9) The woman prepares the plates, salad, bread, utensils, napkins, sauce and brings them to the table.
(10) After eating, the woman clears the table and does the dishes.

And most important of all:
(11) Everyone PRAISES the MAN and THANKS HIM for his cooking efforts.
(12) The man asks the woman how she enjoyed her 'night off,' and, upon seeing her annoyed reaction, concludes that there's just no pleasing some women.

Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Is is it a Vampire or a Werewolf Baby?

Baby Names

Before my kids were born my wife and I thought long and hard on what to name them.  Our list of baby names consisted of family names.  We decided that they not only had to be strong but a name that would be remunerable and professional.  After choosing a name we would check to make sure that it wasn't on the top ten so he would be unique.  I remember going to school and when the teacher would call out Mike, Jason, Christy, or Heather she had to include there last name due to the chances of more than one kid would respond.  Everyone wants to be different.  My mother name is half George and Emily combined together Jeorily spelled with a J.  My mother hated having to correct every one she met or having several nicknames but this did not stop her from naming her daughter Jenily.  Which is half of Jennifer and Emily?

People are all trying to name their kids from something they know but not realizing how it may affect them.  According to the U.S. Social Security Administration the top baby names from 2009-2011 have been names from Movies.   In 2009 the most popular baby name for girls is Isabella and the most popular boy name is Jacob.  Sound familiar?



Top 10 Baby Names for 2011

RankMale nameFemale name
1JacobSophia
2MasonIsabella
3WilliamEmma
4JaydenOlivia
5NoahAva
6MichaelEmily
7EthanAbigail
8AlexanderMadison
9AidenMia
10DanielChloe

That’s right Vampires and Werewolf’s were the top names for 3 years from the movie Twilight.  It seems that team Edward didn't make the top ten for boy names.
This crave for naming children after movies and celebrities has gone on for years.  Now with the new movie Hunger Games are we going to see names like:



Hunger Games

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Treasure Hunting with the Family (Geocaching)

Ahoy, Me Hearties!

Over the weekend we decided as a family to explore Geocaching.  It is a treasure hunt using GPS on your phone.  At first I was skeptical but after seeing a video and finding the first treasure the game was on.  We decided after stopping at a coffee shop on Sunday that we would see what was near and give it a chance.  It was a little frustrated when the gps kept on giving out and learning how to read a map on a tiny phone.  It would of been awesome if the iPad had gps but unfortunately that wasn't the case.  We were able to get clues left by others and a size of capsule that we were looking for.  after some searching in a parking lot we found it in a hole in a concrete post.  This gave the family hope and excitement on how it all works.  My wife thought it was a lot like survivor on how they hide immunity idols.  I guess that some of the other hunts give you clues to other treasures getting harder as they go.  It was a little difficult for the kids to follow being so young, but I think they just enjoyed the outdoors and how the adults were getting a kick out of it.  The log books in the capsules that we found were almost full of recent visits.  This proved that it is a success amongst family and pretty cheep.  The only expense to get started was a app that was 10 dollars and a cell phone with gps. 
The website that can explain more is http://www.geocaching.com

When looking at the website it looks like you can do Geochaching any where in the world.  I think that we may try this out when camping or on our vacation this year to Hawaii.  For those who want to experience the whole pirate treasure hunting you must first learn how to talk like a pirate.  Here is a website that will help you learn the lingo. http://www.piratetreasurenow.com/pirate-phrases.htm 
 Have fun and enjoy the booty. 

Monday, June 4, 2012

Fathers Day

What is the best father's day gift?  

This is a question I asked myself all my childhood when think what to get my father.  Now being a father I think some of the best gifts that I received was the thought.  My favorite was breakfast in bed and being able to just be lazy for one day with the kids. 
    Awesome cupcake
          
  • Make his job easier —Anyone with kids knows parenting is a full-time job too. Help him out with chores, cooking or yard work to give him some extra free time with the kids the following days. 
  • Give him some Dad time — Give him a gift certificate for something he loves doing with just you or his friends. Does he like golf, movies or going out to eat? Hire a sitter and have a night or afternoon of relaxation!
  • Family Picnic — For a day he really remembers, organize a perfect family picnic with all his favorite foods. Head to a forest preserve or a park with benches for some time in nature with your family. Bring baseballs, frisbees or bikes to use after the kids eat.
  • Make him a desert-Find creative ways to make his favorite cup cakes, ice cream or just chocolate to make him feel special.

History of Fathers Day. 

There are a range of events, which may have inspired the idea of Father's Day. One of these was the start of the Mother's Day tradition in the first decade of the 20th century. Another was a memorial service held in 1908 for a large group of men, many of them fathers, who were killed in a mining accident in Monongah, West Virginia in December 1907.

A woman called Sonora Smart Dodd was an influential figure in the establishment of Father's Day. Her father raised six children by himself after the death of their mother. This was uncommon at that time, as many widowers placed their children in the care of others or quickly married again.

Sonora was inspired by the work of Anna Jarvis, who had pushed for Mother's Day celebrations. Sonora felt that her father deserved recognition for what he had done. The first time Father's Day was held in June was in 1910. Father's Day was officially recognized as a holiday in 1972 by President Nixon.

However it came about I am just glad that us men have a day to hang out with the family.

When is Fathers Day?

Father's Day is generally celebrated on the third Sunday in June; including US, UK, Canada, Chile, France, Japan and India. We then see the nations of Uruguay and Dominican Republic celebrating Father's Day in July, with Brazil, Samoa and Taiwan in the month of August. Australia, New Zealand, Papua New Guinea and Fiji honoring Dad's on the first Sunday in September each year with Latvia and Nepal following later in the month. October is the month for Dad's to celebrate in Luxembourg and Estonia, Finland, Iceland, Norway and Sweden honoring him on the second Sunday in November. Thailand and Bulgaria celebrate this traditional day in December.


Sunday, June 3, 2012

How to maintain a Man Cards or obied by the Mens Room rules

Urban Dictionary describes the Man card as a requirements to be accepted as a respectable member of the male community. Can and should be revoked by other respectable males for doing non-respectable-male things.  I think that us men need to start holding other fathers up to a higher standard maybe it should be a Father Card or a different type of Man Card.  Some sites have been created helping men recognizing men and others who should be revoked basically calling them out.

One of these sites is:

  This site has forms to fill out for those men not holding up the standards or being caught doing the men gender wrong.  It is quite interesting to browse the sight and even fill out an application to receive your own man card.

Miller light has played to a Men's audience by calling out the use of man cards.  I think this is great making men become aware in  a joking matter to try to hold up to a better standard.  Sometimes it takes jokes to help curve the over all stereo type of men. 


99.9 KISW The Rock here in Seattle have also seen that men are a great market to look at by creating a whole radio station after men.  One of the afternoon shows that all genders tend to turn to in the after noon is the Mens Room who not only have a great show but now a line of beer.  There Mens Room rules are very similar to the Man Card rules in how a man should act.  I enjoy hearing them interact with each other as they deal with being parents are marriage life as a man.  It helps fill in the gap of a social group when at home with little ones.  Being a man doesn't mean you can't be passionate but how you handle and express yourself.  If interested in a list click on their sites and see the full list that will give you some laughs and incite on how we should act. 

Seattle
Stay-At-Home Dads

Is another place for men who are at home at want to socialize with those that may be in the same boat.  Unfortunately this club is too far for me and wish that there was one for cities not as big.  In time I believe that these sites will start to pop up as us men start to become more apart of our children's life.

http://deadbeatdad.us/

Is a great site calling us men out who try not to stand up for there responsibilities.  I think that this site has a lot of great information for those who are thinking of skipping out and those who are disturbed of others who do.  It has information on laws and ways for men to pay.

All of these examples is proving to the world that we are not like women and when men are stay at home Dad's we may raise kids different.  It may not be wrong but just a different view.

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Did Ken loose his Man Card to Barbie?


Making it worth the Hassle for Dads.

Stay-at-home dads now have Web sites, support groups and an annual convention.  They are showing up in "Mommy and Me" classes and PTA meetings.  Many men restrooms now have diaper-changing tables, and companies’ market souped-up strollers with brand names such as "the Bob." 

During the day sometimes I click on the television other than cartoons to just relax.  It is extremely hard as a dad to find shows that are for us.  The networks fill their day time spots with soap operas and  talk shows that are full of women topics.  It seems that lifetime television spreads from there network to all networks giving us Dads a run for our money to find a man show.  Our only saving grace is on demand television.  For now my honey list have filled the gap along with school work that seems to be never ending.

I recently read a blog of men tell stories of being excluded from mothers' groups and hearing of police questioning fathers seen hanging around the playground. Some have found close friends among stay-at-home mothers, while others say they don't feel comfortable with such socialization or fear their wives would disapprove.  The key is to just roll with the punches because it only get easier. 

The other day my son and daughter were playing house.  I was surprised to hear my son say “you go to work and make the money and I will stay home and clean house.”  My daughter grabbed her Barbie and placed it in her toy car making a car noise waving goodbye.  He then grabbed the fake vacuum and Ken to clean the Barbie house.  I thought to myself is that how my kids portray us?  This would never have happened when I was a little kid.  These moments make all of the difference when thinking if I am impacting my children.  My wife loves how attached they have become calling her dad on accident.  I was the bad guy and feared since I did all of the punishment but now when my daughter falls she prefers me.

Friday, June 1, 2012

Dad Taking on the Kitchen



Are we better Cooks?

Dads are starting to take over the kitchen.  Blogs such as Cooking for Dads by Rob Barrett have given hopes for those who are starting to find their talents in the kitchen.  There are several recipes out there for fathers who just want to experiment.  It is a great opportunity to teach your children a talent that will help them survive and save money. 

 Kids Cooking with Dad

In addition to being fun, your kitchen is also one of the most valuable places for kids to learn in your house from the moment your baby can sit up. Colors shapes and numbers are all there waiting to challenge your child each step of the way. Babies will pass up their fancy toys every time for a chance to match up pots and lids or stack plastic containers. Toddlers love to "sort" silverware and fold napkins into triangles. Next time you need 60 marshmallows for Rice Krispie treats, have your preschooler count out 6 groups of 10 marshmallows each and teach fractions with sticks of butter.

Older Kids helping Dad

Older kids will learn basics of science when they knead dough and stir sauces. And there is the all important lesson that cooking is accomplished with all the senses. As dinner is brewing, talk about the smells, sounds, textures and appearance of the food being transformed. Your children will then taste with a new appreciation, especially if they've had a hand in making dinner.

Warning Men Cooking!

I believe that not all of the time things work out in the kitchen for us men.  We seem to make a mess due to our lack of multitasking. I believe that in the kitchen we are willing to take more risk.  This is why some of the top chefs are men.  My father-in-law is always trying to add something to his meals that he cooks.  Over the years he has mastered several meals with his own recipes not Betty Crocker’s.  This is just some of the benefits of having us men in the kitchen.